Up Next in Couples Arguing

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  Withdrawal (Christina & Tyler)

  Withdrawal (Christina & Tyler)

  This clip provides an excellent example of one of the four Communication Danger Signs, Withdrawal. Their discussion-- about the way they communicate in times of frustration-- is echoed by Christina's body language.

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  Escalation (James & Ladios)

  Escalation (James & Ladios)

  In this clip, the danger sign of Escalation is evident as each partner one-ups the other through interruption and elevated voices. [Note: This recently filmed video features live couples, not actors.]

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  Invalidation (Jessica & Lee)

  Invalidation (Jessica & Lee)

  View a real couple displaying the Danger Sign called Invalidation. Invalidation is putting down the thoughts, opinions or character of the other. It can be subtle (eye rolling, not listening) or obvious In this case, the Invalidation is overt as Lee claims that "nothing you're doing is working" a...